I was surfing just now and came across something that simply shocked me: a blog entry for The New York Times called "Now Scrutinizing: A Rounder Golden Globes."

This is from last week, but I just saw it now. Blogger Andy Post comments that Jennifer Aniston, Courtney Cox and Kate Hudson all looked like they'd put on weight at the Golden Globes.

I think Post may have thought that since his piece lacked a "value judgment" about weight gain (he spoke of 'sexier curves' and said they were 'more Marilyn than Twiggy') that this sort of speculation was less damaging.

Of course, it's this very sort of objectifying of bodies that leads women (and men, I might add) to eating disorders and other vastly unhealthy practices that stem from obsession over physique. I mean, if those women are round, I'm a balloon, and so are most humans.

This seems to me to be an example of good intentions gone awry. I can tell from his piece that he means to nuance this sort of body image discussion by not showing a preference for the unhealthy, zero-size aspirations that the tabloids seem to consider ideal. But instead, it's just another crap piece with an unhealthy focus on exterior. How about a piece about what an unheralded great actress Courtney Cox is? What's Kate Hudson like as a person?

Why is The Times involved in this sort of journalism in the first place? Why do we continually set the bar for discourse at the lowest possible level? Let's raise the bar. Significantly.
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...Wadorf to Your Astoria is done. Through. Finished.

This will be the final post here.

But fear not! If you go over to my brand-spankin' new website, billkonigsberg.com, you will see that I am still blogging over there.

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Just four more days in 2012... Hard to believe how quickly --

Who the hell am I kidding?

This was the slowest year in the history of man. I don't mean that in a bad way. It just went slowly. To me, last December seems like years ago.

It was a great, slow year:

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People often ask me: Bill, how did you find the perfect man?

Okay, no one outside of my head has ever asked me that.

About four months ago, I took a home test and found that my blood sugar was in the "pre-diabetes" range.

I can't say I was shocked, because it wasn't the first time I'd had that result. But I was horrified, because it was rising from the last time I'd had it checked.

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Tomorrow is the first day of NaNoWriMo, also known as National Novel Writing Month. Every November, all sorts of writers take on the challenge of trying to write a draft of a novel in a month.

I'll tell you what, people who plan to vote for Mitt Romney:

I disagree with you, and not just a little. Your support of the Romney/Ryan ticket feels like a kick to the stomach, because as a gay man, this stuff is personal to me.

But you know what? Don't de-friend me.

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What would happen at an all-boys boarding school in Massachusetts if an athlete came out as gay?

This is NOT the subject of my upcoming novel, Openly Straight. In fact, it is the setting for that novel, but it is the plot of my first novel, Out of the Pocket.

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Here it is, boys and girls! The cover of my forthcoming novel "Openly Straight."

Like it? I love it!

I love that it is a visual representation of the story. Given a choice of all the labels my main character, Seamus Rafael Goldberg, can choose, he chooses the most innocuous one.

Today I've decided to be one of those helpful authors and let you know what happens when you attempt to use copywritten song lyrics in your novel.

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We are back from our first full-fledged vacation in about three years!

Chuck, Mabel and I went to Northern California for two weeks, and what can I say? Paradise!

We had such an amazing time doing nothing and loving it.

We took Mabel to get groomed last week. We take her about once every other month, because the shaggy look really suits her personality.

This time, we didn't really specify that much about what to do, besides saying she needed a trim.

So yesterday, I received the "First Pass" of Openly Straight in the mail!

While it is still in "manuscript form" rather than "book form," it appears as it will in the book in terms of font, pages, etc. That was exciting to see. It's always different when you see your words in this form.

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I have been a highly effective person at times in my life. You don't become successful in a creative field without working diligently. It simply doesn't happen. Likewise, it's about impossible to succeed in any endeavor without concerted effort. I don't mean to brag, but when I'm on, I'm really on.

I woke up this morning thinking about the novel I am working on, BEST OF BIPOLAR DISORDER. There is a fantasy element in the novel. It's the first time I am working with an element of the fantastic in a novel.

This makes me nervous.

So I had a HUGE treat yesterday... I got to have lunch with the former student who served as the inspiration for the character "Carrie" in OUT OF THE POCKET!

I hadn't seen her in nine years.

So I'm writing a lot about God these days. Stuff like, what do I really think God is? Do I believe in God? If I do, what do I believe God to be?

You see, I have such a wide range of friends.

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I've been thinking about this whole "Chick-fil-A" debacle a lot recently. As a lot of you know, I like to be thoughtful in my reactions to things.

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I have a new book deal!

I've wanted to scream it from the top of a mountain for the entire world to hear for the past couple months, but I couldn't -- not until the deal was signed and official. Well, it is now signed and official.

Chuck said something yesterday that really struck me. It was a comment about how things have changed in his lifetime, especially for gay people.

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The novel I am currently working on involves a journey taken by two best friends: Duffy and Aisha.

Duffy is 17, straight-but-different, and bipolar. He has lived his entire life in Billings, Montana.

Aisha is 19, a lesbian, and black.

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I admit it: I've been Halien-ized. Not since my utter obsession with the new wave group Missing Persons and perhaps my fascination with Aimee Mann in the late 90s/early 00s have I been quite like this about a singer/group.

Contrary to the title, this posting is not about how I used to trudge four miles to school through the snow, and how "The Kids These Days" don't know how good they have it.

Instead, I want to focus on something that I feel "The Kids These Days" don't have.

I saw a show last night where a guy named "Dr. Mort" hypnotized people. 

I've always wanted to see a show like that. I find the idea of hypnotism intriguing. 

I have to say, the show was an odd experience for me. Like most of the audience, I found it entertaining. But I also left feeling a bit ...

I love to let songs not just inspire me to write, but inspire the direction in which I take characters.

I've done this on three novels thus far. In Out of the Pocket, I used the Mika song "Any Other World" to define for me some of the pain that my protagonist, Bobby Framingham, was going through.

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I can't wait to see the movie Bully when it is released nationwide on April 13th. I think it's beautiful that as a society we are talking about bullying in ways we didn't 20 or 30 years ago.

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