Ever since the news came out last week about the house passage of a bill that would expand hate crimes legislation to include sexual orientation, I've been reading a ton of comments on the internet by people who say things like "aren't all crimes hate crimes?"

The short answer is no.

It always burns me up when people who are not impacted by something (ie. people who aren't from a ethnic, religious or sexual minority group) claim to be experts on a subject. I mean, if it doesn't concern you, why wouldn't you ask for edification from someone it does impact? I wouldn't spend my time telling you my opinion about abortion as if it's the only correct opinion, since I am far away from that issue. If I wanted to know more about it, I'd probably ask a woman, for instance.

And I don't think the question these people are asking, above, is a real question.

Ask Jack Price whether the crime committed against him on Friday morning was the same as any other crime. Of course, he can't answer, because he's in a coma.



Until you know what it is like to know that your life could be in jeopardy simply because you are who you are, you can't understand. These crimes are more insidious than typical assaults, and the reason hate crimes legislation exists is to make sure that the perpetrators don't get a slap on the hand and a "oh, you know, boys will be boys" explanation for their homicidal behavior. That sort of response to crimes of hate is the reason these laws exist in the first place.

The gay panic defense is a perfect example of why these laws need to exist. That's the defense that explains away violent acts against gays and lesbians as a response to a "come on" by the gay person. It blames the victim, as if a violent response is a correct response to an alleged "come on."

This is no different than what happened in 1955 in Mississippi, when Emmett Till was lynched for allegedly whistling at a white woman. Without laws in the books to protect those in minority groups, the criminals in that case were able to walk free.

The hate crimes legislation signed in 1968 made such an attack a federal crime. Which was necessary because as much as some people would like to believe that Till's murderers would be prosecuted to the full extent of the law by local law enforcement, that wasn't even close to the case. Adding sexual orientation to the law means that if such a crime were to occur in a small town in Montana, say, the local police couldn't sweep it under the rug and say that it was just "boys being boys."

It's not enough to say that "all violent crimes should be prosecuted vigorously," because to this point, many of these crimes have not been.

To be protected by the law is not a special right. It's a civil right. The difference is that civil rights is about making sure no one group gets worse treatment than any other group. Special rights assumes that a law somehow makes it favorable to be in one group than another.

I promise you, every LGBT person in the world would prefer to know that they could walk to a deli without having their head beaten in by thugs while being called hateful names, and therefore not need such a law, than to have things as they are.
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...Wadorf to Your Astoria is done. Through. Finished.

This will be the final post here.

But fear not! If you go over to my brand-spankin' new website, billkonigsberg.com, you will see that I am still blogging over there. And on that site, powered by the fine folks at wordpress, you may comment using your Facebook account.

Sorry, Blogger. We liked you, but we needed more. We needed actual comments!

So thanks to those of you who perused this blog regularly.
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Just four more days in 2012... Hard to believe how quickly --

Who the hell am I kidding?

This was the slowest year in the history of man. I don't mean that in a bad way. It just went slowly. To me, last December seems like years ago.

It was a great, slow year:

1. My agent sold my next book, Openly Straight, to Arthur A. Levine Books (Scholastic).

2. I got involved in a very cool project at ASU, to be explained/described in due time.

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People often ask me: Bill, how did you find the perfect man?

Okay, no one outside of my head has ever asked me that. While people do often say nice stuff about Chuck, about him being handsome and funny and kind, I have found that people rarely ask questions:

A) Like the aforementioned outside of bad movies and trashy novels

B) Of me in general in which advice of any kind is sought.

So while this has not been asked of me, I do feel as though I have some expertise on the subject.

About four months ago, I took a home test and found that my blood sugar was in the "pre-diabetes" range.

I can't say I was shocked, because it wasn't the first time I'd had that result. But I was horrified, because it was rising from the last time I'd had it checked. I decided that if I wanted to avoid having diabetes, I needed to change my diet and my exercise.

I did both.
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Tomorrow is the first day of NaNoWriMo, also known as National Novel Writing Month. Every November, all sorts of writers take on the challenge of trying to write a draft of a novel in a month. Note that I say "Draft," because very, very few novels are finished in one draft, and while some writers might be able to draft and then revise a novel in a month, I don't think that's a very realistic goal.

For me, especially.

I'll tell you what, people who plan to vote for Mitt Romney:

I disagree with you, and not just a little. Your support of the Romney/Ryan ticket feels like a kick to the stomach, because as a gay man, this stuff is personal to me.

But you know what? Don't de-friend me.

In his Huffington Post blog post on Oct.
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What would happen at an all-boys boarding school in Massachusetts if an athlete came out as gay?

This is NOT the subject of my upcoming novel, Openly Straight. In fact, it is the setting for that novel, but it is the plot of my first novel, Out of the Pocket.

I mention it because of a comment I received last week from a former student at a school I visited three years ago.
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Here it is, boys and girls! The cover of my forthcoming novel "Openly Straight."

Like it? I love it!

I love that it is a visual representation of the story. Given a choice of all the labels my main character, Seamus Rafael Goldberg, can choose, he chooses the most innocuous one. He just wants to be a "normal kid."

I had no idea, when I wrote this, about how much I was writing about myself. That's how clueless I can be about myself.

Today I've decided to be one of those helpful authors and let you know what happens when you attempt to use copywritten song lyrics in your novel. So if you are not a regular reader of this blog, I'm guessing you found me because you just used those lyrics to Rapture by Blondie in your novel, and then you thought, "Wait. Can I do this?"

The answer is: yes and no.

I love using lyrics.
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We are back from our first full-fledged vacation in about three years!

Chuck, Mabel and I went to Northern California for two weeks, and what can I say? Paradise!

We had such an amazing time doing nothing and loving it. We drove about 900 miles each way and stayed for nine days at a place called Driftwood Bungalow in Manchester, California. It's about 150 miles north of San Francisco, about 30 miles south of Mendocino.

Nothing is there, and that's how we wanted it.
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